you know Jesse James? (you’re thinking who the freak is that? yeah i thought that too… we all only know him as the big fat nobody who scored Sandra Bullock)
and then he cheated on her (idiot) (since then we have all forgotten his existence again) (what was she thinking?) (who is jesse james? i already forgot)
but anyways.. so she finds out he cheats on her and im sure in that moment she just felt so devastated and lonely like her life had just shattered into a million pieces. right?
we all do.
we break up with someone or get broken up with and it feels like the end of our world. we try and string them along because we are lonely.
yeah well guess what?
Sandra is now marrying RYAN REYNOLDS.
JESSE FEELS INCREDIBLY GAY
SOMETHING BETTER ALWAYS COMES ALONG. ALWAYS.
it feels devastating at the moment but it will go away and you will look back and think “WTF was i thinking?” i always do. i think “why was i so sad about him?”
it takes time. but it will happen. i pinky promise.
granted, i still haven’t found my ryan reynolds yet but i will….. hopefully. haha
also kind of along the same lines..
i was talking with someone this weekend.. this someone is the most spiritual person i have ever met. he always pushes me to make changes in my life spiritually. i love it.
i love when someone gives me a challenge that pushes me out of my spiritual comfort zone. it always makes my testimony one million times stronger.
anyways
so we were talking and he said,
“eventually you will get to the point where you are willing to give up ANYTHING to draw closer to the spirit. when you get to that point you need to tell the Lord that you are willing to give up ANYTHING and then listen to the spirit to tell you what those things might be, and then change them/fix them/give them up, whatever it might be.”
“Heavenly Father will give you someone who is at the same spiritual level as you. He has someone who is so wonderful and at the highest spiritual level that He wants to give you, but if you are not willing to make the changes and sacrifices to get to that highest spiritual level, Heavenly Father will see that and send someone who is at your level, but He will always wish he could have given you someone so much better.”
i probably butchered what he said.. and thats not word for word but that is basically the idea.
i loved every word of what he said.
it made me ask myself if I am willing to give up anything and what spiritual level i am at.
never settle for someone who doesn’t bring you up and make you a better person.
someone amazing will come your way.
try again. ryan reynolds is dating blake lively.
anonymous: unless you just got off the phone with ryan reynolds.. our sources are probably equally as valid. thanks though!
Hey Amber I came across your blog a while ago and love it! I want to thank you for This post. I recently had a break up and it’s been really hard… But reading this and having you be true and honest about breakups really made feel better because its been hard for me. So thank you for this reminder!!!:)
kelsey! you have no idea how much you just made my day! i was writing this thinking “why am i writing this?” haha i always do that so im glad it helped a little!! break ups just stink and i hate to see girls go through them because i think that lonely feeling is the absolute worst feeling ever! im so sorry about your break up! those are no fun. it totally will get better and you will find someone new and amazing just hang in there through the hard part
thanks again for your sweet comment pretty girl!! xoxo
Ryan Reynolds is dating Blake Lively… there’s pictures in magazines and all over the internet of them.
there is also pictures of blake lively and leo dicaprio making out and pictures of sandra and ryan together so once again, thanks, but no thanks!
I have to tell you lots of things, first of all. I was the one who made the fake profile of you. Super retarded I know. Our reasoning wasn’t to make fun of you though I promise. I actually think you are beautiful and funny as well as witty. We needed a girl to make my little brothers ex who played his heart out, jealous. Even though we only made it a week… it worked. I felt really bad about your post and didn’t want you to think it was for any reason other than we chose you to be our ridiculously hot fake girl (who happens to actually be real). I know this sounds super duper creepy, but I have to tell you! I admire your spirituality and beauty/big heart (they are kind of one in the same right?).
unonymous: well thank you for telling me that
i always assume the worst so i guessed you guys were making fun of me. but thank you, youre a sweetheart. glad it worked and made him jealous haha hope you have a good day! 
(and sorry for my sassy replies earlier)
team amber!
haha i love you bree!
yes but the pics of sandra + ryan are OLD and blake + leo are OLD.. NEW pictures from last week, this week, etc are of blake + ryan. google it.
I absolutely love this! it just makes me want to be a better person and be the best I can be so the Lord will send me the best man out there! love your blog!