you know Jesse James? (you’re thinking who the freak is that? yeah i thought that too… we all only know him as the big fat nobody who scored Sandra Bullock)
and then he cheated on her (idiot) (since then we have all forgotten his existence again) (what was she thinking?) (who is jesse james? i already forgot)
but anyways.. so she finds out he cheats on her and im sure in that moment she just felt so devastated and lonely like her life had just shattered into a million pieces. right?
we all do.
we break up with someone or get broken up with and it feels like the end of our world. we try and string them along because we are lonely.
yeah well guess what?
Sandra is now marrying RYAN REYNOLDS.
JESSE FEELS INCREDIBLY GAY
SOMETHING BETTER ALWAYS COMES ALONG. ALWAYS.
it feels devastating at the moment but it will go away and you will look back and think “WTF was i thinking?” i always do. i think “why was i so sad about him?”
it takes time. but it will happen. i pinky promise.
granted, i still haven’t found my ryan reynolds yet but i will….. hopefully. haha
also kind of along the same lines..
i was talking with someone this weekend.. this someone is the most spiritual person i have ever met. he always pushes me to make changes in my life spiritually. i love it.
i love when someone gives me a challenge that pushes me out of my spiritual comfort zone. it always makes my testimony one million times stronger.
so we were talking and he said,
“eventually you will get to the point where you are willing to give up ANYTHING to draw closer to the spirit. when you get to that point you need to tell the Lord that you are willing to give up ANYTHING and then listen to the spirit to tell you what those things might be, and then change them/fix them/give them up, whatever it might be.”
“Heavenly Father will give you someone who is at the same spiritual level as you. He has someone who is so wonderful and at the highest spiritual level that He wants to give you, but if you are not willing to make the changes and sacrifices to get to that highest spiritual level, Heavenly Father will see that and send someone who is at your level, but He will always wish he could have given you someone so much better.”
i probably butchered what he said.. and thats not word for word but that is basically the idea.
i loved every word of what he said.
it made me ask myself if I am willing to give up anything and what spiritual level i am at.
never settle for someone who doesn’t bring you up and make you a better person.
someone amazing will come your way.