okay. boys.
why do they always want to just hangout?
i have come across a lot of…… idiots shall we say? so to save myself some grief of putting up with “idiots” who only want to spend time with me for one reason i have come up with a set of rules.
no starrrting a hang out after 11 (10:30 sometimes.. depends on the boy)
no consistent hanging out with same boy without going on any dates
blah blah blah im not going to list all the rules but you get the point, yeah? yeah okay.
(also im not saying every boy only wants me for that reason. lots of boys who are 100% a catch take me on dates and all that jazz)
but
its so hard these days to tell if a guy just wants to hang out with you to get some a or if they genuinely want to spend time with you/get to know you/etc.
i just want a boy who will do gay fun silly things with me and not care if we kiss or whatever.
and i want a boy who takes me on actual dates. like planned, paid for dates.
today i saw someone on facebook that is engaged now and i just thought to myself..
“wait…. if YOU’RE engaged…. WHAT THE *#*#*#*#*@*#($*!#@($*@(#$* is wrong with me?!?!?!”
jk. nothing is wrong with me.
nor am i in a hurry to get married.
im only 21.
but i do want a best friend to do everything with.
p.s. people are so mean..
i got a message from a boy (aka some condescending a hole) who was questioning my motives for doing my charity auction.. he was thinking i was just doing it to impress a boy im interested in or to come across to provo as some “saint”
which is not true.
at all.
if i had done that, i would have invited the boys i am interested in. but i didnt.
why is it so hard for some people to think that maybe i just wanted to do something nice?
i dont get it.
people are mean.
people will always try to find SOMETHING wrong with you. always. they want to feel better about themselves so they find something or make something up about someone else to lift themselves.
well guess what? you suck. annnd you judging me means im already better than you. (is that an oxy moron?) (oh well.)
i want to do one charity event a year. im already planning my next one. and it will be 1000000 x better than the last. that was my first trial run. i definitely learned what to do and what not to do and also to give yourself more than 3 weeks to plan it. so im pretty much stoked for my next fundraiser.
also: why is it that old people say mon-dee, tues-dee, wednes-dee, etc?
thats not how its spelled…
and its not how its said….
so….. stop?
Those are 100% perfect rules. You’ll find one that loves to take you on dates to get to know YOU:) Love you!
ahh i know i feel so annoying i always vent about boys via my blog haha but i love you and miss you! we need to play asap when you are not bombarded by homework for your LAST semester!!
yayyy! almost done!
I just read this… (I got behind on reading your blogs so I’m catching up) but I think you’re amazing for doing a charity auction! Who can pull that off? Not me. Only Amber. It’s freaking awesome. So I hate that boy. And I love you!
I have complete empathy for you. Why is it that people can’t just be nice!? If you do something nice for someone, or tell them they look nice, it doesn’t mean there is hidden motivation. Some people just like doing nice things for other people. And even if your auction (which i’d love to hear about btw) was to impress a guy, so what! You’re motives are good and your energy is channeled into helping others. That’s a pretty selfless way to be self centered lol. Maybe that’s kinda like saying you just go to church so you can get to heaven…
I have some ideas for your next few projects. I think that 1 a year is a great goal!
hav thanks luvvvuh
youre the bestest friend ever. i miss you and hayes so much!! your new pics you posted are to DIE for!
andrew- thanks that is super sweet of you! i would love to hear your ideas!